ReggeeD over at a msg board I frequent just gave me one of my new fav quotes of all time.

She said : "Just because it's not the way you do things that doesn't mean it's wrong. The fact is, being Grandma doesn't trump anything. You don't have any special claim on someone else's children just because you're grandma."

AMEN!!!

I understand that Grandma's are special and I wish that my children were blessed to have caring loving attentive ones but the fact remains..."Being Grandma doesn't trump anything. You don't have any special claim on someone else's children just because you're grandma."

So remember we are the mother's and WE alone (with our hubby's - maybe..LOL) decide what our children do.